The Alcohol/Drug Abuse Women's Center
An unassuming house in a neighborhood on
The women of
Over 2000 women have received treatment through
Three women recently shared with me what ADA House means to them. Each said that
All three women spoke animatedly of the healing that occurs as they build skills, return to school, secure jobs, create support groups for sobriety, find satisfying ways to use their time, and “learn coping strategies that we never had.” All three spoke of a community atmosphere. They talked about the chores for which they are accountable, the support of women who understand them, the groups in which they tackle personal issues, and the palpable fellowship among clients and staff. “There’s lots of love here,” one woman said. Another said, “I feel comfortable here. I feel safe. I can be honest because I feel trust, and I’ve never felt that before.”
One of the women said, “Before coming to ADA House, many of us were existing, but not living life. Our addictions took up all of our time. There was no room for friends, for family, for intimacy, for doing good works, for jogging or going to the beach.” Another said, “The counselors here help you to help yourself. I have really opened up. And I am dealing daily with feelings of deep shame and guilt. I still have a lot of work to do.”
Each of these women hopes to “give back” to ADA House. They all know that their best gift will be daily success. I left
Suzanne M. Peloquin
Professor and occupational therapist
School of Allied Health Sciences, UTMB
ADA is a House of Faith
The front door of a white house on First Street opens from a green yard in a quiet neighborhood into a small space charged with a large mission: To provide residential treatment for substance abuse, at no cost, to Galveston and Brazoria County women without financial resources.
Soon after they walk through that front door, the women of
Wives, mothers, sisters, and daughters, some are challenged by co-existing mental illnesses, HIV positive status, or Hepatitis C. Most have experienced domestic violence. Over the past 20 years, more than 2000 women have received treatment through
Two counselors recently spoke to me during a rare quiet moment. I asked what they would want people to know about ADA House. Both said that, foremost,
Clients are not turned away from
The counselors spoke animatedly of the changes that occur in women’s lives. They noted the huge effect on a much larger community that even one woman’s success can have. They shared stories of women who “mended relationships” and reunited with parents and children, of
If
Suzanne M. Peloquin
Professor and occupational therapist
School of Allied Health Sciences, UTMB
Working within a small house on the corner of
Ellie Hanley, Executive Director, recently told me that it costs about $88 a day to sustain each woman in the program. This amount covers room and board as well as intensive treatment. Any islander who compares this figure to the cost of one night’s stay in a low-budget hotel has to be impressed, especially since the women engage in 30 hours of group sessions weekly along with daily 12-Step meetings and individual counseling.
How does ADA House get the funding that it needs? Two ongoing contracts, one through the Gulf Coast Center (MHMR) and one through the Department of Assistive and Rehabilitative Services (DARS) fund part of the daily cost. Funds from the
Anyone who has ever raised funds knows the challenge. It’s somehow less daunting to ask people to support rescue efforts or to manage a well-publicized crisis. Ellie said, “It’s not as if I can show people cute pictures of kittens or plans for a new building. I’m asking people to pay for day-to-day operations. People need to know that money given to ADA House restores lives and repairs families.”
The money is well spent. Over 2000 women have received treatment through
Even as they recover, the women of ADA House contribute to their communities. Because recovery in its full sense means recovering a productive and meaningful life, the women give time to community efforts. They help at the Jesse Tree’s food fair every other week. They have helped with the YMCA’s fund runs, with William Temple mailings and lunches, and with efforts to help hurricane evacuees through
If you work at the UTMB and give to the State Employee Charitable Campaign (SECC), you can designate ADA House, listed as Alcohol/Drug Abuse Women’s Center, as a recipient using the code number 321001. Such designated donations have risen recently, and Ellie hopes that the trend will continue. Let’s sustain the hope. Call 763-5516 with a donation!
Suzanne M. Peloquin
Professor and occupational therapist
School of Allied Health Sciences, UTMB
Within a small but busy house on the corner of
Although it is not common knowledge, the women establish many community ties as they volunteer for local agencies. Grateful to “give back”, the women distribute food at Jesse Tree Food Fairs. They help with mailings at
Noteworthy community events celebrate the life changes that the women are making. Around July 4th of each year, parishioners from St. Michael’s in LaMarque sponsor a moving celebratory dinner for the clients, in honor of their newly-found independence. Grace Episcopal Church members also sponsor a dinner gathering during Advent. That time before Christmas is symbolic, Ellie said, of the spirit of hope and anticipation of good things that pervades ADA House.
Still other connections develop as citizens reach out to the women and staff.
Suzanne M. Peloquin
Professor and occupational therapist
School of Allied Health Sciences, UTMB
If you look at Drusilla Waters today, you would not be able to visualize her as a homeless, strung-out mother of four who had to lie, steal and hustle for a daily dose of crack.
“I used every day,” said the 37-year-old Texas City resident. “That was all my life consisted of — getting drugs and using. I was homeless, lost my kids. It was just overpowering. It was like using (drugs) against your will. You don’t want to do it, but you do.”
Such was her life for nearly a decade. But about four years ago, she walked into the Alcohol Drug Abuse Women’s Center.
These days she is a housekeeping supervisor for a resort-hotel. She has a new car and just purchased her first house. She has also helped other former addicts get jobs where she works and continues to volunteer her time at the ADA Women’s Center.
And she has her kids back.
Waters credits the ADA Women’s Center with saving her life.
“It’s a God thing,” she said. “I am so blessed.”
Before Jan. 13, 2003 — the day Waters went clean — her life was anything but a blessing.
She married at an early age, dropped out of Texas City High School her sophomore year and was living a relatively simple life. At the time, her drug use was limited to alcohol, marijuana and occasionally pills.
But it progressed. Her husband — who supported her addiction — left her. At 18, Waters had four kids and was jobless.
Waters said the quest for drugs — mostly crack cocaine — consumed her life.
Family members moved in and took her kids, not that she noticed.
Along the way, Waters found herself tossed in jail several times and went into court-ordered rehabilitation and drug-abuse programs. None worked.
“That never stopped me from using,” said Waters, who had promised herself several times she would quit. “Once I started feeling better, I’d just go out and start up again.”
The bottom came in an abandoned house in east Texas City where she and others had been using.
Waters became ill just as police arrived in the neighborhood.
As her companions scattered, Waters walked to a payphone with money and some drugs in her pocket. She picked up the phone, intending to call her dealer.
Instead, she called a cab to take her to her mother’s home.
When she arrived at her mom’s home, she was surprised to be taken in. She flopped onto the couch where she remained for nearly a week.
She was nursed back to some semblance of health, not so much by her mother as by two of her daughters who were living with their grandmother.
She started to feel better but, unlike the many times in the past, she didn’t return to the streets to seek out crack.
“I just didn’t want to use that day,” said Waters.
By the end of the month Waters found herself at ADA Women’s Center, a drug rehabilitation and shelter center now in its 20th year.
Waters was among the 111 women that year who sought recovery through ADA House, which offers a combination of the traditional 12-step program and a deeper drug addiction-counseling program.
Last year, ADA House helped 153 women beat their addictions.
Program director Ellie Hanley and a staff of nine manage the center, which provides temporary housing, drug-abuse counseling and job-search assistance for about $88 a day per client. That’s less than it costs to stay in one of Galveston’s finer hotels, Hanley pointed out.
Those who come to the center first find themselves in a 35-day treatment program that includes 30 hours a week of group sessions, as well as one-on-one counseling. Eventually, the women transition to a program that includes seven to 10 hours a week of counseling while they look for work.
The program has a $380,000 annual budget.
“We have done a lot with a little for a long time,” said Hanley.
The program started as an idea of a group of church women in Texas City.
About a third of the center’s funding comes from a fundraising gala and the county’s two United Way organizations.
Waters is the first to promote donations to the United Way.
“They are making a huge investment,” she said. “They are saving lives. Not just me, but they saved my children’s lives and they are rebuilding families.”
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WHAT: Galveston United Way
WHEN: 11:45 Tuesday
WHERE: Moody Gardens, Frances Moody Ballroom, 7 Hope Blvd. in Galveston.
COST: $20
CALL: 409-762-4357
WHAT: Mainland Communities United Way
WHEN: 11:30 a.m. today
WHERE: Charles T. Doyle Convention Center, 21st Street and Fifth Avenue in Texas City
COST: $15
CALL: 409-948-4211
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By the numbers
Alcohol Drug Abuse Women’s Center
Number of women helped in 2003: 111
Number of women helped in 2005: 153
Number of methamphetamine clients in 2004: 1
Number of methamphetamine clients in 2005: 13
2005 budget: $380,000
Gulf Coast Center and state grants: $228,000
Mainland Communities United Way: $50,000
Galveston United Way and State Employee Charitable Campaign: $28,400
— Source: ADA Women’s Center